When my heart bleeds for the children and my soul burns with rage…

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When I see children, I see all good that remains in this world in their faces and actions. Doesn’t this world always christen children as; ‘the future of the world’, ‘the father of man’, ‘the epitome of innocence’ and ‘the icon of love’? And this very same world also takes the pleasure to crush the [...]

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Filed Under: Society by Admin June 8, 2008, 3:59 am

When I see children, I see all good that remains in this world in their faces and actions. Doesn’t this world always christen children as; ‘the future of the world’, ‘the father of man’, ‘the epitome of innocence’ and ‘the icon of love’?

And this very same world also takes the pleasure to crush the very innocence of a child when they are used by adults to cater to their wild sexual needs.

Chubby Cheeks, dimple chin
Rosy lips, teeth within
Curly hair, very fair
Eyes are blue, lovely too
Teacher’s pet, “Is that you?”
Yes, yes, yes.

Aashu loves to recite this rhyme; she is after all her class teacher’s favorite student.

Aashu is a normal, pretty and lovable six year old child. She is the ultimate representation of joy, freedom and innocence. Aashu goes to a neighboring school and studies in 2nd grade. She loves Mummy, Papa and her doggy Bozo. Her best friend is Rashi and she shares her food and even her favorite crayons with her. Aashu loves to draw rainbows in her drawing book. Life is beautiful for Aashu and she blooms everyday basking in the love of all who know her and care for her.

But……

A month has passed since all have started noticing the changes in Aashu, she doesn’t laugh anymore, she hates going out to play and bursts into tears with no reason. She hits Rashi and doesn’t like Mummy,Papa or Bozo.

Mummy and Papa think it is just a phase, maybe it is the workload at school; after all Aashu is ‘no more a kid’.

They have no idea as to how ironical this statement is! 

Yes, Aashu is no more a kid, her innocence, her modesty and her childish dreams have been destroyed and thrown away.

Nobody noticed that Aashu’s seven color rainbows had changed into red ones; she had started drawing small, childish stick figures which she would later slash them and tear the pages.

Those figures were Aashu herself!

Aashu used to bleed everyday but as the bleeding would stop in few minutes, she could never tell Mummy. Without proof, Mummy may think that she is lying and give her a good spanking. Already it pains every day and she doesn’t want more of it.

Aashu is scared!

Aashu wants Mummy to hug her tight and talk to her with love but she doesn’t want Papa to hug her, she is scared of Papa.

Papa is a ‘man’ just like the uncle who makes her bleed everyday, maybe Papa too will do the same and hurt her if he hugs her, so she remains far from Papa.

Mummy had told her on her 5th birthday( how happy we all were that day, we had many balloons, chocolates and glittering ribbons all over my room and I got so many gifts, Papa had given me the huge teddy bear) that GOD hurts only those who have sinned in this world.

So, that meant she had sinned and that’s why uncle hurt her!

She hates this world, she hates school, she hates uncle, she hates Mummy, Papa and Bozo.

She hates herself! 

Aashu now wished only one thing – TO DIE!

I have never known Aashu personally, I have never met her but I know that this is the story of millions of children who are victimized by sex-fiends every second in this brutal world.

If, I could wish for something, I would wish that a story like Aashu’s never existed.

‘CHILD ABUSE’ (Yes, I have written it bold and loud so that the readers can feel at least an iota of this harsh reality), this is a phrase I have detested since the day I came to know what it actually means.

Before 19th century, child was considered a property and when I think of it now, aren’t they treated the same way even today when their childhood is scarred by actions of abuse? 

“Universal Declaration of Human Right’s recognized ‘child rights’ in 1948.

The UN Convention on the Rights of Child came into force in 1990(this shows that it took almost half a century for adults to declare that children have rights too).

“The world would be a better place if we would bend down to try and protect these saplings from being trampled upon.”

This space and word limit is too short to describe this horrendous crime but I wish from the bottom of my heart that this piece would have scarred the heart and burnt the soul with rage of every reader. Because it is said;

“When the heart and soul rebel; a change is achieved”

We all should act or we may have to change the nursery rhyme to-

Wounded cheeks, broken chin,

Torn lips, no teeth within,

Ragged hair, dirty not fair

Eyes full of tears, full of pain

Teacher’s pet, “Is that you?”

No, No, No. I don’t want to be the pet.

Just save me from this big bad world!

Authored By Lekshmi. G.Nair, India

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Sabreesh says June 15, 2008,9:09 am

The article s really good,i dont have any words to comment cos all my comments are already given above.Beautiful article,can say its the eye opener to the issues that are happening in the present world….great u came forward with such an blog…

Lekshmi says June 15, 2008,9:24 am

:) thank you for that, yes it shud be an eye opener..

because even though we know many things, either we dnt care or we just let it be..or we be careless…

need to change all that..:)

am small move towards tat..

shruthi says June 15, 2008,11:00 am

This is a damn good article…i will give you full marks.
1) u took this issue, no matter what people say, stil many do not write abt it.

2)it has been portrayed in a very soft manner, yet the seriousness creeps in at all places.

3) i think a child would associate with the way you have written, for sure..

4) you have not given any solutions in the article and thus people brainstormed,i see all emotions here in the comments -anger,pain,love,innocence,ideas and strong will.

5) when an article can do so much, why wudnt we like it?
cheeeeeers lekshmi! :)

Lekshmi says June 15, 2008,11:10 am

@shruthi

i did not have to think much for the topic but only the way of writing was a Q..:)

I guess, it wasnt a bad attempt but ofcourse will do much better next time…

“I believ that when one wants to do somthing, they just have to try and the whole universe will conspire to help them” :)

this statement is my close frnd’s best quote and i saw it in real today..

i really wish to do something in this context and i just took a small step and i have help and ideas pouring in from almost all corners that i can think of..

The feeling that you are passionate about something and others want to help you in that is great..

thank you shruthi..

Lekshmi says June 15, 2008,1:15 pm

@ALL :D

the contest ends here :)

but i am so very thankful to all who helped me out here…:)

now, i am ready for the very next step i considered…

a campaign against child abuse…

with all your support…it would be ….

lemme not fill that blank :)

thank you alll..lots of love..:)

ryan says June 16, 2008,5:20 am

Nice article yo..

ankita says June 16, 2008,7:01 am

hey sweetheart :)

m really v proud of u atleast u tuk sum initiative against this issue nd make ppl aware!
D best part is that u potrayed article such that its impact get maX.
by reading it ny1 cud felt d pain d lil aashu nd many other innocent small kids who don even know wat is happening wit em r dealing with.!
CHILD ABUSE,eve teasing,rapes etc these r such issues which hits person physically as well as psychologically.
nd d worst part is these r not getting controlled :X
nd even cant b until a common men strictly raise voice against it!

WATEVER IS UR PLAN FURTHER count me in there!we r wit u!

Vidya says June 18, 2008,9:40 am

Dude, Leks, I read your article and the comments that follow (Boy, was that a long read!) but here’s what I think. Yes, its a good issue, but for a journalism graduate like you, it’s a topic beaten to death. This write up however escapes that category because of the treatment that you have given it. It’s a good idea to have written like the child, but somewhere I got distracted in jumping between your narrative and the child’s views. One pointer- since this write-up is raising awareness, you could have had a woman for the perpetrator and not a guy as usual. That is one of the misconceptions that is common quite. But otherwise, I would ask you to keep the narrative simple and I am not convinced that a child of 5 or 6 would think of dieing. Seriously, the other symptoms of frustration, withdrawal and emotional vent of pain and anger is good but that line about the kid thinking of dieing ruined the story for me. Last thing: Your start in the story was a bit stereotypic for a journalist. I would have suggested that you dive directly into the plot and let the reader get the point of the write-up.

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